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Friday, April 29, 2011

i got to be that mom...





Thats right...i was the one at the men's softball game that was not only prepred for myself and my own kid but for the other's as well. Equipped with wet wipes, snacks and extra layers of clothing... not to mention sidewalk chalk! Its a rare occurence that i dont forget something as crucial as an article of clothing so i had to brag!

 

Thursday, April 28, 2011

9 Months Old

AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME MONTH!!! This has been so much fun. He is ridiculous. I can't wait to see what he becomes in life because he already oozes so much personality.
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He had a growth spurt near the end of the month. I had him in a footless onesie and exactly one week later, it was an inch too short. I didn't change anything in my washing habits. He just grew that fast. I had to adjust all of the height settings on all of his standing toys. Speaking of standing, he stands. Still with a little bit of support but he is a standing man. He hasn't quite started crawling yet. He is obsessed with tummy time and became that way all on his own. I figured, he'd go when he was ready so I didn't push it too much. Now, he proved me right. He decided he wanted to start trying and is doing it. He gets the part where he has to dig his feet into the ground to propel himself forward but he must not have the inner thigh strength to get up onto those knees. He spends much of his time on his belly and spinning around like the bottle in an overcharged game of "spin the bottle".
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He started saying "mama" where it obviously means me on the night of March 4th while I was getting him ready for bed. Oh how that made my heart gush. Words can't describe. Also, he has now mastered the kissing and hugging thing. The hugs came a few days before the kisses. They are few and far between but, man, are they good!! Oh, and those kisses... they're open mouthed and oh so delicious. He just opens his jaw and presses his lips against my mouth. Only myself and my dad have been so lucky so far though.

He has been sleeping in crib. I didn't want to say it out loud for fear of jinxing it but it has gone so smoothly that I'm venturing to say that, special circumstances notwithstanding, he is now officially in his big boy bed in his own room. We have a one and a half story and I just wasn't ready to put him on the upstairs floor by himself. I have the monitor with video so I am finally okay with it. A big part was that our heat didn't circulate upstairs very well so it was so cold during those winter months. Now its a bit warmer so we're doing it. I did a lot better than I thought I would. It doesn't hurt that I have been sleeping so much better without having to tip-toe around.

We've been having some issues moving him onto solids. We did the purees against my better judgement because people just kept showing up with bags of them. I had thought I would try a modified version of the baby led weaning method. We've tried avocados, bananas and even the thicker baby purees that he should safely have been eating for a while now. Without fail, he would throw them up. If not right away then within 5 minutes. We're talking violent throwing up too. Not just a little spit-up. I nurse him before I feed him anything else like is recommended for all babies under 12 months so when he throws up, he loses the milk and whatever else I've given him. We are backing off of trying for a bit. He is gaining weight but slowly. He is still quite low on the percentages but as long as his numbers are going up, we've decided not to freak out about it too much. Our doc agrees. Some babies just develop slower than others. He never has been too orally curious and just shows no interest in putting any food in his mouth either. He likes to smash and throw it but does not want to try it. Anything I put in his mouth causes him to gag so hard that he sometimes throws up everything before it even goes down the hatch. Poor thing. On the plus side, my breastmilk supply seems to be handing the pressure well. I am keeping up well. I was worried that kid would go hungry after he threw up everything he had taken from me but my supply responds quickly to demand. Good to know. I'm considering doing some pumping so I can stash up some. I'm anxious to do some dieting but don't want to do anything until he is weaned. Maybe I can cut a week or two off the end at that one year mark I'm trying to reach.
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He is a lean baby. I can still, at 9.5 months fit his ribs within the circle of my hands if the tips of middle and thumbs are touching. He has some padding but not much. I think the majority of his weight is in his skull... I had a big head as a baby and Greg had a huge one. It makes sense. I can't even figure out how he holds it up on his tiny neck. You can sometimes see the tendons down the back of his neck straining to hold it in place.
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He has the two bottom teeth firmly in place and he knows how to use them. He is usually pretty careful but, occasionally, he will start to doze off and wake himself up by chomping. Eeeekkk. No sign of the top teeth yet but the gums are a bit thicker than they were.
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I admit I have been lax on keeping up with the cloth diapering. We do it most days but I use disposables over night and for a few changings every other day or so. He has been getting really red and has what looks like chemical burns. Also, his diapers, no matter how much I washed, rinsed or sun-dried them had a lingering odor. I finally figured out that the culprit was the type of detergent I was using. I just bought a CD detergent when I registered for the diapers and didn't do much research on the brands or reviews. Turns out the one I bought has the worst reputation out there. So, I ordered some new stuff and am excited to see how it pans out. I will be getting it in the mail soon. Until then, I'm gonna give my nostrils and the poor mans tushie a break.
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I am realizing that Cole needs some socialization. He is with adults all of the time but babies are a whole nother story. He likes to watch them safely from a distance and only in my lap but if they yell/cry/scream, he puckers up and wails. Its getting so that I avoid functions where I know certain vocal babies we know will be there because Cole will spend the whole night balling. He's a big chicken. We're gonna have to fix that so at church, I did the brave thing and took him to the nursery. He handled it surprisingly well but only because I stayed with him. He sat near my legs and played with toys but got a little grabby with me whenever another baby came too close. Its a work in progress.
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Its technically spring but mother nature hasn't gotten the memo yet. Its still a bit chilly. Despite the warm sweater needed, we have ventured out into the sunshine a few times. From March-ish to November, I always have a picnic blanket in my car. I saw a cute park the other day with a fountain and we just had to stop and enjoy it for a bit. There isn't much better than cuddling up on a blanket with your baby and picking out shapes in the clouds. Its was heavenly and I look forward to thousands more spontaneous adventures in the years to come.
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Dear precious baby,

You are so delicious that I have to remind myself that you are not edible. Every tiny inch of you is so sweet I want to nibble. I spend our cuddle times drinking in the sweet, baby smell that I know won't be around much longer. I cherish the softness of your knees and the soles of your feet because I know, all too soon, that you will be off and running and they won't be the softest, tiny baby feet anymore. I'm soaking in every bit of you that I can before you change on me again. I do enjoy the changing and seeing what you turn into next but I am always loathe to loose the Cole of today. You are perfection. I never knew it could be like this. When I was a little girl cradling my doll, I never thought it possible that it would be so much better than I had dreamed. Playing with you, dressing you, loving on you, teaching you and sitting back to watch you grow is my life and I wouldn't have it any other way. There are not enough hours in a day to love you. Every time you choose me my heart clenches tight in an effort to never let that transcendent joy go. We are a love for the ages. Keep up the smiles and growing because you are doing it perfectly! I love you to pieces, little one!

Love,
Mommy

Friday, April 22, 2011

I felt it...

This morning i felt it. That feeling of undeniable joy, wonder and uncomprehendable love. This feeling that defines being a mother that catches you by surprise when you've gotten yourself too caught up on the tasks of the day...or in my case, week. We have had a stressful and non-stop last two weeks full of photo shoots, out of town company, and sleepless nights; not to mention computer viruses and some killer cutting top teeth. But there i was, snuggled under my thickest white down comforter with this precious little happy boy and it whacked me in the face. I was listening to the torrential, severe thunderstorm raging outside our windows accompanied by the soft, patterned swallow of my tiny and suddenly, all of my lists went away. I just wanted to be there.
All day long, i am bombarded by theories and opinions on mothering and i'm sad to say that i am impressionable enough that i worry about way too many of them. I'm always reading about who did something a different way than i did and how well it turned out and i second guess my choices. Then i'm stuck with regret and guilt; two things i don't handle well. So i've made a decision. I'm not going to listen anymore. Ive deleted my subscription to at least 10 other blogs that support a different parenting style than my own. I've deleted the tabs that open when i run internet explorer that lead to the various mothering sites i check in on. I'm just gonna do me. I know what i am doing and i'm very confident in my my mom skills. Why do i cause myself to second guess my decisions because someone else swears by attachment parenting or someone else is berating me for not having him on a strick schedule. I'm a laid back person and i whole-heartedly believe my child inherited that trait. We're just going to continue to do what is best for us and show the world how right we are!!
Cool thing i did read though was that children form one of two skills and perfect it before moving onto the other; either motor skills or more along the cognitive type. Cole is totally door number two. While he rocks the army crawl/scoot, he is much more content talking (which he does non-stop), stacking/building/ problem solving type of puzzles or flipping the pages of a book. He is in no hurry to get anywhere but loves a good brain puzzle. And i am A OK with that. My little lawyer or doctor or astronaut is well on his way! Seriously, the other night he scooted his way over to his toy box and kept pointing and asking with his little Cole language so i got him situated and put the box on its side in front of him...but not before he generously laid some big, sloppy wet ones on me (i'm obsessed with the kissing phase). FOR TWO HOURS he sat there and one by one pulled each toy out, examined it closely for a minute--maybe pushed a button or two then put it in a neat stack next to him. He emptied the entire toy box in this manner. Then, when the last toy was precariously perched atop the pile, he reverse processed and put every single toy back in. After that, he shot me a giant grin and did the whole thing again. I SWEAR. It was so stinkin cute. He was just so content. Maybe that is perfectly average for 9 months old but i dont know. This momma was proud either way!!
I am furious with myself for not having his 9 month post up yet. I am so sorry and will catch up. I swear. The writing is done but I need to edit the photos and get em uploaded. Stupid computer virus.  Plus...the nursery is finally assembled so if these black rain clouds ever go away I can get enough good light to take a picture!!

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Sorry excuses

I want to be a better blogger. Most of my mommy idols are fellow bloggers. They boast of the benefits to blogging. I want in.
I regretfully admit i'm not a very motivated person. I want to change that. I seem to have the same problem with blogging as i do in every other aspect of life right now. I'm stuck in the mud. I want to journal and document my life. What more colorful way is there to accomplish this than a blog? I promise to do better. If i put this out there, maybe i will stick to my guns. I don't even know if anyone cares to hear about my simple little life but future me will and u can sure as hell bet i'm gonna want to relive it with as much detail and visual aids as possible.
Blogland.....its on!!! You are my everest.
Tomorrow, after the dreaded grocery store run, i will sit my butt down and fix my virus riddled computer. Then, i will start on day one of the newly improved and motivated me!! Stay tuned....

And what is a post on this blog without some sugar? (P.s. i didnt mean to attach the second pic but im doing this on my new phone and am too tired to care. Not all pics can be perfect, right?)



Monday, April 18, 2011

Sweetness and Sugar all in one...

This little one was such a sweetheart. Only 7 days old and already happily posing for the camera. Here is a sneak peek...

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Monday, April 11, 2011

Today's family shoot

This was a great idea for a Mother's Day gift!
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Sunday, April 10, 2011

a fun day at the lake!

My incredible friend, Olivia, took these. There is honestly no one smarter, sweeter or more talented that ever walked the face of the earth. I'm gonna have to scan the drawing she made of Cole. It's crazy. check back for that later!

Me and Cole (9 months)

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Baby Rosie photos

This little one is so precious. I forgot how little these babies can be. Even I was nervous holding her. We only shot for a few minutes as this was just a visit to come by and give hugs. I will be taking many more photos of this baby as time goes on!! Next time, I will have all of my equipment and will get to control the lighting!!! Can't wait!
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I'm a new wife and an even newer mom. I have a secret dream to be super-mom. I love to craft, cook, dance and fill my life with as many adventures as possible. I'm slightly crunchy granola but enjoy a good steak. I'm right brained and type B (with some type A tendencies). I thrive best when I get to use my creative juices. I dabble in photography and party planning. I play piano and have a dream to learn the cello. I want to make the most of this one, short life I find myself living.

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This blog was originally intended to be a personal journal of my pregnancy journey and all that that entails--shared with only a few close family members. It was a way for me to keep them posted on all things baby and occasionally post a picture of my growing torso so they could see the progress. After several posts, I started to get hooked on other blogs and became motivated to attempt to do more with mine. We'll see how it goes....







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